When my boyfriend and I started this sex fast, it wasn’t something we took seriously. I didn’t actually think we’d go all the way to 30 days and I didn’t even realise that it would have any sort of real impact (aside from extreme horniness).
So it was a real surprise when on day 2, I started feeling a bit closer to him. I figured it was all a mental thing but lots of small changes seem to be cropping up. A conversation last night had us looking into how big a role sex play in our relationship. Sure we have sex, sometimes lots of sex but I’d never really thought about how much weight we may or may not give it.
We aren’t one of those couples that go without sex when fighting. Our sex life has been without problems but could that be a problem?
So now I’m looking at the fast through semi-new eyes. I’m actually considering that it might may us closer in other ways. Even though this isn’t something I would sign up for indefinitely, I’m interested to see what the benefits are (if there are any) would be.
Even after the deep and insightful conversation, I still wanted to have sex but this time, instead of bitching, moaning and trying to put the moves on my dude, I said my prayers, kissed my man and went to sleep.
#stillwinning (or so I think)
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